What to Do with Rejection

I’m so proud of our interior designer turned gender studies undergrad researcher!

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You know me: I have ideas. Lots of ideas.  There’s always something I am willing or wanting to try, from ideas for books to research projects, to teaching techniques, the world seems full of possibility.

Two years ago we put in a research proposal to track the changes in marriage practices in Qatari society. The special emphasis was on women and education. Were educated women any different from their counterparts? Were the daughters of today any different from their mothers or grand daughters?

The grant was declined but the three of us, a colleague, a enterprising student research assistant, and myself knew our project was interesting. We believed in what we were doing and so we decided to go ahead. 8 months later, we had surveyed 355 female Qataris and interviewed 150 in focus groups. I presented some of our early findings at a conference in November, proud to be selected from among hundreds of submissions.

Today we were awarded the Student/Early Career Researcher Paper Prize at the WAPOR Doha Regional Conference at Qatar University!

Chocolates and a little applause will go a long way.

Whatever your idea or dream: see if there is a workaround. There usually is, though it may require sacrifice to see through. What would you do if there weren’t any obstacles?

How to Pick Yourself Up in 1 Easy Step

I was down on the world the other day when a friend sent me this link to a panorama of the world.

The sites and sights they capture are amazing. And when I realized I had been to half of these beautiful places, like the Maldives, the Great Wall of China, or Petra, Jordan, my heart eased.

If you are feeling low, find some beauty to soak in. The perspective you gain will make it worthwhile.

How to Use Your Hair to Stand Out

Screen Shot 2015-02-23 at 12.33.22 PMAsk any woman, or metrosexual, and s/he will tell you hair is a like a cathedral’s spire. One of my childhood friends agrees and would add that spires come in all types of textures.

GoodHair will be the first, national hair salon chain specializing in care and styling for women with textured (i.e., kinky, coily, curly or wavy) hair.

Their concept? “Professional women with textured hair need easy access to healthy, fast and affordable hair care services.” I – and many of you – say amen!

Folake and Anthea, both working moms, spent a year researching the hair industry and the NYC market. They realized they needed a way to quickly assess customer demand for their concept. They are using the female-­?specific crowdfunding site, Plum Alley, for the campaign.

“We’re excited to join a growing community of ‘mompreneurs’ balancing the demands of motherhood and entrepreneurship” said Founder and CEO, Folake Oguntebi (aka my childhood friend all grown up).

With funds raised, they plan to run a proof of concept in New York City, delivering these services for at least six months in order to illustrate the significant demand for a healthy, fast, affordable and inspiring salon experience for women with textured hair.

Click here for more information or to donate to the campaign. You can also email good.hair.is@gmail.com for  more details.

What is a niche service you could dream up?