What You Need to Know about Qatar

When most of us moved to the Arabian Gulf state of Qatar, in 2005 or earlier, our family and friends thought we were in Dubai. Doha become a buzz word in the international community after that infamous 2010 World Cup bid to host the games in 2022.

This summer, in the middle of Ramadan, during soaring temperatures, and swirling dust storms, my host country is in the headlines again.

In the middle of our annual summer trip home, there is less of what has become the familiar chit-chat.

  • “How do you really pronounce it? Cutter? Or Quatar?”
  • “Do you like it there?”
  • “What do they think about the new president?”

Thanks to geo-political activity in the region the questions have circled back to echo the early days of moving there.

  • “Are you okay?”
  • “Is it safe?”
  • “When will you come home?”

It’s no secret that Qatar’s closest neighbors, once allies, are now playing a very different role in the region. If you don’t know much about the Gulf Cooperation Council (GCC), the accusations of harboring terrorists, funding groups, and being too independent for their own good, would sound persusassive. The allegations against Qatar are like the proveriable pot calling the kettle out considering the roles citizens of other GCC countries have played in terror events around the world.

Here’s what you should know about this place that I and hundreds of thousands of other expats consider our second home.

Qataris value education

Like most of the developed world, the Qatari government has the wisdom to pour their oil wealth into their greatest asset – their young people. Since 1998 the Qatar Foundation for Technology, Science and Education has created universities, secondary schools, blood banks, entrepreneurial centers—this list could go on and on and on—because there are indeed that many centers of innovation. They all have one goal in mind—to build human capacity.  That’s why I’m there. I teach literature and writing to students who want a competitive education, many of them sitting in classrooms with students of the opposite gender for the first time.

Education is one arena where Qataris demonstrate again and again their willingness to discuss, to engage in dialogue, and to debate, starting from the highest levels of government, to the administrators, and on down to students.

Having worked at five of the six universities in Education City, I know that these campuses are beacons of pluralism and play a central role in the advancement of Qatari women—a group that already enjoys more privileges than their neighbors to the south.

Qataris value women

I moved to Qatar as a single South Asian American woman and immediately felt safer than I had in most North American cities.  I got a rental car and learned how to navigate the city (as soon as I realized being driven around wasn’t as glamorous as it sounded—more like wasting minutes of your life waiting for someone to pick you up).

In most business dealings, I sit at tables full of male colleagues twice my age and am treated with courtesy and respect (much more so than by other expat women—another story for a different time). Women can vote and run for political office. Some of the most prominent roles in education and the arts are held by Qatari women.

Qataris value cosmopolitanism

Most of my Qatari friends speak more languages (4) and have traveled to more countries than I have (20+). Being from a small, peninsular state, they have long been accustomed to seeing the world, whether London, New York or Paris. Whenever I see one particular former student who took Modern South Asian literature with me, he never fails to mention the first book we read in that class, an Indian historical family saga. Our oldest son thinks our neighbor Mohammed is his cousin because the two of them were born a week apart and now they sit together on the bus. Multicultural society aside, the funds not being put into education are going full force into film, museums, medicine and sports.

You probably won’t hear any of this in the aggressive suggestions of interference by Qatar’s neighbors.

Qatar isn’t perfect. Then again during this period of global political change, who, (besides Canada) can say they’re anywhere close?

Then again during this period of global political change, who, (besides Canada) can say they don’t have extremists among them?

What is abundantly clear to those of us who have lived and worked here in the Middle East is that Qatar is necessary for a peaceful and stable region. They are already becoming a microcosm of all that we hope for. For this they deserve support. Not ostracisim.

Marketing 101: 2017 Budweiser Superbowl Commercial

All good marketing campaigns tell a story. And as far as timely ones go, the only way this could have been more relevant, is if it featured a certain Slovenian model coming to America.

I’m not much of a beer drinker but this new ad by Budweiser might be the inspiration I needed.

The company released its ad in advance of the upcoming American football tradition, the Super Bowl. A sporting event that is virtually unequaled in viewership and impact fact for humorous 30-60 second commercials.

I hope this is the trend going forward – that from every segment in society, we will be nudged back towards the values we hold dear. Difference is to be celebrated, not punished.

Dear Pro-Birthers and Muslim-Banners

If you read that headline and thought these are not (necessarily) one big group.   Then you’re right. These two things are together in one title because they came to a head in the same week and because they are not mutually exclusive. Some of you might belong in one camp and not the other.

I get it.

As likely as not, judging by the people who were in Washington on Jan 20th and Jan 26th, these views probably do overlap.

And the pro-birth movement is not doing itself (or anyone else, least of all the imagined babies) many favors.

The main issue the rest of us have with the idea of promoting life above a mother’s life, above medical advice, irrespective of the circumstances of conception (rape), is that the very people who place such value on the right to life, don’t seem to value it once the baby is born.

Life for that baby seems full of hope.

To be born but without health coverage. Hope you don’t get sick.

To be born to a parent making less than a man in the same role. Hope you can make it college.

To be alive with the very real chance that your precious life might end studying at school, watching a movie, or shopping in the mall. Hope you don’t get shot.

Hope you get lots of help from someone because the same people who did everything to make sure you were born – including increase the chance of you killing your mother – will be voting to take away programs that you’ll need.

These people will instead spend their time focusing on stories of outliers, the .1% of extreme methods used by mothers who are forced into last minute decisions due to one circumstance or another. They will post and repost graphic images of other babies and clamor that everyone has the right to live.

And when the government passes a law saying that refugee children fleeing some of the most horrific, prolonged wars cannot enter our country, so that those children can access the basic rights of life they hold so dear, well, let’s hope these people who value life so much appreciate nuance.

That they understand the irony of denying a living child the security of life but marching to protect the lives of the unborn.

That they are aware that a citizen from any of 7 countries on the banned list has never been involved in a terrorist attack.

That they can appreciate why people with legal documents should be allowed entry to the place they call home.

If you’re not pro-birth, but are anti-Muslim, it may stem from another tide of feeling which could also benefit from an appreciation of irony: true Christianity.

Jesus was not born to the Caucasian parents of a Cadillac dealership in Atlanta, Georgia. He was, as you may have heard last month, or even watched reenacted, born to a pregnant teenager in a horse stable.

He fled persecution and found refuge in Egypt.

He also said so many things about poor people – and promiscuous women – you probably want to go brush up on it. It’s kind of all summed up in these phrases, “love your enemies” and “he who is without sin, cast the first stone.”

We are divided today in a way our modern generations can’t remember. How far back to do we have to go to the level of inequality and refusal to engage in logic around the issues?

The 60s? The Civil War?

Jesus wept.